I Don’t Want This To Affect Me Anymore

As you read this title, I’m curious what your “this” is… If you don’t have a “this,” then Godspeed… And I’ll lovingly call BS. My “this” is the demise of meaningful relationships—whether it’s a boyfriend or dear friend.  All of my “not good enough” thoughts will...

Managing High Expectations

My best friend Heather has said many times, “Well you have really high expectations…” Awkward silence ensues and before I can say, “What’s wrong with THAT?!” she quickly recovers with, “And you SHOULD!” as she shrinks in fear and covers her head for protection. I half...

Gratitude Shmatitude

Yes, I have friends and family I can call who are always available.   I have impeccable health, a roof over my head, access to delicious, nutritious food every day, and nothing has ever stopped me from pursuing my passions. Am I grateful? Absolutely. But do shitty...